From our Birth Parent Blog: As you all my know I often base my posts or struggles I notice while working with some of my birth mothers. This month’s post is no different. One of my favorite clients is negotiating an open adoption relationship. At one point I asked her what do you think this is like for the adoptive parents? My client sat back a little dazed and couldn’t find the words to answer me. This got me to thinking that in times of grief one may often become too focused on their sadness and ignore the feelings of those around them. So I’ve decided to post the other side of the story.